Sunday, December 21, 2014

James M. Guiher, Jr. 1927-2014




Obituary from NYT December 19, 2014




GUIHER--James M., Jr.,

died on December 17 in Columbia, Maryland. Beloved husband of Elizabeth "Liddy" Hart Guiher and father of Catharine Brownfield Guiher and Deborah Guiher Chamblee. The only child of Ruth Souders and James M. Guiher, Sr., he was born in Clarksburg, WV, on February 21, 1927. He was raised in Clarksburg and graduated from Washington Irving High School in 1945. After military service as Private First Class in the army in post-WWII occupied Germany, he attended Princeton University on the GI bill, class of 1951. He attended Harvard Law School, but did not finish, opting instead to get an MFA degree from the Museum School of Fine Arts in Boston in 1954. He married Liddy in 1954 and they settled in New York City. Jim worked for Prentice-Hall publishing company, where he rose to be the sponsoring editor for art and geology books. His crowning achievement there was publishing the textbook edition of H.W. Janson's "History of Art." Later, he became editor-in-chief of the elementary and high school textbooks division. He retired from publishing in 1976 to pursue a writing career and intellectual pursuits. Valuing the wisdom of Greek pagan culture, he wrote two Greek-themed plays, "Aphrodite" and "Candoo!", which he self-published in 2010. In later life, he had become increasingly concerned about political discord and religious intolerance, both in the United States and around the world, and felt that the Greek philosophy of "everything in moderation, nothing to excess" held the key to the world's problems. Jim devoted great efforts to preserving family history and artifacts. He ensured that the avant- garde films of Liddy's uncle, Jim Davis, were housed at Anthology Film Archives, curated by Robert Haller, and that numerous family historical documents were housed at the West Virginia and Regional History Center at the University of West Virginia, curated by John Cuthbert. After living in NYC for 60 years, he moved to Maryland in October 2014 to Charlestown retirement community, where his daughter Deborah works. He was looking forward to a new chapter of his life, and to continue working on disseminating his wisdom and insights through his writings, but increasingly nagging health issues resulted in his time being cut short. His parting wish for humanity is for people around the world to follow a path of moderation rather than fanaticism. He was pre-deceased by his wife, Liddy, in 2011. He is survived by his two daughters, Catharine (Brooklyn, NY) and Deborah (Columbia, MD), his son-in-law Jeff Chamblee, and two grandchildren, Rebecca Guiher Chamblee and Benjamin Guiher Chamblee. The funeral will be held at the Davis Funeral Home in Clarksburg, WV on Saturday January 3 at 11:00am. A memorial will be held in New York City at a later date. In lieu of flowers, donations may be sent to Anthology Film Archives, 32 Second Avenue, New York, NY 10003; or the West Virginia and Regional History Center, c/o WVU Foundation (IMO Jim Guiher FUND 2U139), PO Box 1650 -Morgantown, WV 26507-1650.

 
                                  









Holiday concert and Chanukah party

Can you find me in the alto section?



 


Sim, Jules, Eric, and Emily





Thursday, December 18, 2014

Redesigned Dining Room

I finally got around to putting in wainscoting in the dining room and painting the wall a dark teal. I am very happy with the result. Observe the beautiful quilt that Patti designed and made hanging on the wall.  The carpenter also got around to adding the skirt to the kitchen breakfast bar. A detail the perhaps only I would notice.


Room decorated for our Judeo-Christian-pagan holiday party...Food included turkey and dressing, potato latkes, and pecan tarts.  Sim lit the menorah for the second night of Hannakah.







On my birthday Sim and I went to a fancy restaurant with yummy food. This is crab salad with melon and cucumber!



Arlo is sitting up, crawling, and pulling himself to a standing position. He is now 7 months old and I can't wait it hold him next week.





Our Voices concert is this weekend with bits from the Messiah and Christmas carols. Hope we get a good turnout.







Thursday, November 27, 2014

Thanksgiving 2014

We had a lovely duck dinner that Lee made. We dined in the courtyard alcove. Check out the pics.








Monday, November 24, 2014

Beautiful Spaces in San Miguel

San Miguel de Allende has some amazing houses built on the flat or into the hills around El Centro. I did not take pictures of Rob and Andrew's stunning house on Aldama, but took plenty of a new B&B where Lee will do some dinners next month.












Last evening we went to the little movie theatre around the block where for the price of a movie you get popcorn and a margarita. "Elsa & Fred" starred Christopher Plummer and Shirley MacLaine. It was a fun romantic comedy. Afterwards Sim and I walked over a few blocks and got a Dominoes Pizza to take home.  The streets were quiet unlike the previous evenings when marriage parties would march down the streets with brass bands and huge puppet brides and grooms.

On Saturday we walked all over town, maybe 8 miles. We used 4 miles to walk over to the house that Lee and Richard are renting from Dec thru Mar. It's very cute with a lovely back courtyard with waterfall. In the afternoon we walked up to the B&B which was about 2 miles uphill. Unfortunately the folks were not there so we walked back down. We drove on Sunday thankfully in order to see the 8-room B&B. It surrounds a 17th century stone chapel. It is quite marvelous.  It has an amazing roof top terrace as do most of the houses here.  The view is breathtaking and has lots of seating places and outdoor grill and kitchen area.

We have been enjoying street foods such as gorditas and tacos al pastor. The square is usually buzzing with activity like street venders, bands, dancing etc. it's called El Jardin. We usually stop at the bakery to get some yummy pastries for breakfast.


Friday, November 21, 2014

November is dancing

John and Carol came to visit for almost one week early in the month.  We went Scottish Country Dancing in RTP one night.  I know some folks there because they come to our local Ceilidh dancing.  I said I would try to attend regularly in January since I could get a ride over on Thursday evenings.  I'm considered an experienced dancer on our Tuesday lunch time Ceilidh dances.  I did Scottish Country dancing for about 3 years in the mid 1990's in DC.

Sim and I are in Mexico now where I have had my first individual Argentine Tango lesson.  I will get 5 more plus some dances within the next week. I am very excited about learning how to do it.  There is not just one type of tango dancing but many. Basic tango, tango waltz, tango milonga, and multiple neo tango styles. 

We are staying with Lee and Richard again just two blocks from the main square of San Miguel de Allende. Their dog Baily and their son, Noah, are here as well.  Check out the living wall at the bottom which is an installation of plants hung up on a wall.  The plants are mostly succulents. 




Monday, November 3, 2014

All Saints Day

I have been looking forward to the arrival of Sim's daughter, Lee, and her family on their way to Mexico for the Winter. So last Saturday night they arrived for dinner along with some long-time family friends, Mike and Gail, who live in Chapel Hill. Below are some pictures.




Lee, Bailey, Sim, and Gail


Emily, Noah, and Lee


Gail, Mike, and Richard



Sunday, they came by for breakfast and helped me eat the Day of the Dead bread turned into French toast, leftover pretzel rolls and biscuits. Sim and I went to see Margaret Kerr in Raleigh who had just gotten out of the hospital but is looking great. Below is a picture of John-Mac and McConihay who just turned 4 years old.